i have a 8 1/2 daughter in Or me California. in 2000 her father and i had joint custody and he had physical custody.CA(i wasn’t working that’s y i was denied for physical custody He then took off to Or in 2001, w/o my consent the only way things are ok & not have him take off again go off god knows where with her is if i keep it cool. my dad passed away when i was real young and i wanted her to get the chance to spend time with her dad.things were ok. in’04, d grandma summon me for custody battle in or, come to find out she has been taking care of her those times i thought she was with dad, i have no $ for lawyer & in training for mgmt & i can easily loose it , gma told me that when i get on my feet i could have my dghtr the cstdy is for insurance purpose. now she wont let me be alone with her when i visited 2x, not returning my call when she said she will, don’t send me pictures, not calling me when she’s sick holidays. i’ll be n OR wed to mon,what can i do about this?need help
in custody battle what can i do if the grandmother is to involved as the mother in oregonDec 102011
How on earth did you really not know she was living with the grandmother. Who answered the phone when you called your child, did you never talk to her father the whole time. How could you not know. Sounds like you really didn’t keep in touch with your child like you said you did, other wise you daughter would have said, something to you also about doing everything with her grandmother and never mentioning her father. You should have been asking questions also about what her and her dad have done fun lately, you know conversation. Your story doesn’t hold water with me and I think you left out some parts of it also.
Get a job and a lawyer.
you can get court appointed lawyer and go after them.